Recently, I finished reading Gone, Gone, Gone by Hannah Moskowitz.
I admit that I wouldn't have read this book if it wasn't the book of the month for the July challenge of Read Philippines. The challenge was simple: read the book, post a review of it, and answer some follow up questions. If your review gets picked, you win beautifully designed bookmarks courtesy of Laila, the awesome moderator at RP. Easy peasy, right? Uhm, not if you shy away from LGBT books.
I have nothing against the LGBT community. And it's not like I consciously avoid reading books from the LGBT genre. But I when I checked my shelf for book I've read that had LGBT themes or characters, I found out that there were actually very few such books on my shelf (Will Grayson, Will Grayson by John Green, The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky, Every Day by David Levithan). And I began to wonder why...
Do I avoid it? Again, no. After finding out that a book has LGBT characters, do I decide to not read it? Not necessarily. It discourages me a little bit, or makes me hesitant. Not because I don't like such books. I guess what I realized after a bit of retrospecting is, LGBT books kind of dispirit me. I know a lot of gays and lesbians but no one I'm actually close to. I like to read books that I feel would resonate with my life, books I can connect with. But since I *assume* that I wouldn't be able to relate to the LGBT characters, I tend to not read them.
I know that sounds like BS. After reading Gone, Gone, Gone, I realized that my fear of not connecting or understanding LGBTs was unreasonable. I liked the novel. Lio and Craig are gay teenagers who are trying to make sense of their lives and what's happening around them. They have issues with love, their parents, and they're angsty and confused, like most teenagers we know or we've read about.
Maybe it also helped that before going in, I psyched myself into thinking that I am about to read just another YA novel and not focus on the gender issue or whatever. And I think moving forward, that's what I'm gonna do when I come across another LGBT book -- forget the prejudice, drop the unwarranted fear, and just remember that LGBTs are human beings first and foremost. Love, war, heroism, teenage hormones -- these are all universal and not gender-specific.
So now, it's your turn. Do you read LGBT books? Why or why not? Share your thoughts on the Comments. :)
In a nutshell, NOPE. I don't read them, not that I mind if there is a gay character in a book, I just don't want a romance or something like that. It's a personal religious preference, though I have several family members who are gay. I have nothing against them personally I just don't want to read about them.
ReplyDeleteI totally get you, Stormi. It's ok, my reading choices are affected by my personal experiences and beliefs as well, and I think it that's the way it should be.
ReplyDeleteLGBT. I've only read 1 which is the GGG. I'm familiar with Will Grayson2x since I've been eying it at NBS and Fullybooked but I haven't read it yet. I thought it was about just normal guy friendship. I never thought it was an LGBT. Makes me curious even more. For the Perks of being a wallflower, I have a book I purchased from bookdepository which still sleeps in my shelf for a month already but still haven't finished reading it. I'm still at Chap1. Anyways, I think it's good that I read GGG before finishing it. I think it's a nice warm-up before reading another LGBT. But I would prefer an LGBT without an intimate romance scenario. That would be a bit too much for me to handle.
ReplyDeletePerks and Will Grayson have gay characters but not too much romance so that's light compared to GGG. So yeah, hard-core ka na. Hahaha!
ReplyDeleteI can't remember a book that is mainly about LGBT in my Read list. I have nothing against them, I have friends who are gay and lesbians but it's not my cup of tea. I have read a few books that has gay/lesbian relationship but most of them are just minor characters and It didn't bother me. Anyway, books that is mainly about romance is not my thing so I guess that's one reason why I haven't read any LGBT books yet.
ReplyDeleteYeah, I didn't mind it at all before when they were minor characters. And I don't know if I'm ready for something that has sex scenes. Hmm...
ReplyDeleteI admit that I only read a few LGBT books but not because I stay away from them, but it's like how I choose normal books I read, the storyline has to be interesting for me too, not just because it's LGBT. I'm very interested with Fan Art by Sarah Tregay and Everything Leads to You by Nina LaCour though so I'll probably pick those up.
ReplyDeleteI have a lesbian aunt so I'm all for gay marriage and equality but I respect other views and opinions too, if it's a personaly preference not to read books with LGBT themes because of religious beliefs, etc, I have nothing against that. Lovely topic, Joy :)
Hi, Amir! Yep, the synopsis is one of the biggest considerations pa rin. And I'm kinda intrigued by Everything Leads to You. :)
ReplyDeleteThere are so many things we consider when deciding to read a book and I think it's just natural because reading, for us, is very personal. Thanks for visiting, Amir! :)
I completely understand this - I don't try and avoid LGBT books but I read significantly less because I don't think I actively seek them out. I'll probably have to change that!
ReplyDeleteGreat post!
That's another reason. I don't really look for them, I just usually see them on Goodreads. Thanks for dropping by, Lucy! :)
ReplyDeleteI definitely read them and usually like them! I personally feel like LBGT books are like any other romance book *shrugs* and I don't care if a book is LBGT or not (unless of course I'm crushing on a book boy and then he turns out gay and... my dreams are shattered. XD lol) I'm always unsure why it's an issue, really. But very interesting topic to discuss. ;)
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by @ Notebook Sisters!
I'm from the Philippines, which is a very religious country so I guess this is why a lot of Filipino readers tend to stay away from these kind of books. Despite recent developments, the LGBT community here still has a lot of challenges to face. Educating people is the first step, I think, and reading is a fun way to do that. :)
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